Reflections on desire, intimacy, and the relationship you have with yourself.
This is where I write about the parts of intimacy that often go unnamed: desire, self-trust, identity, pleasure, and the ways we lose and rediscover ourselves over time.
These aren't prescriptions or formulas. They're invitations to notice something more clearly, ask a different question, or see yourself from a new angle.
The 6 Types of Intimacy and Why One Kind of Connection Is Never Enough
Most people think intimacy means closeness. The truth is that closeness can take many forms. This post explores the six types of intimacy and what happens when one is carrying more weight than it was meant to.
Read MoreWhy Your Libido Isn't Broken
What if low desire isn't a problem to fix, but information to understand? This post explores what libido may be responding to and why that distinction matters.
Read MoreDesire, Response, Performance, or Anxiety
Not everything that feels like wanting is the same thing. An introduction to the Four Intimacy Modes™ and the hidden differences between them.
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The 6 Types of Intimacy and Why One Kind of Connection Is Never Enough
Physical closeness is only one of six ways people connect. This post walks through the rest — and why relying on just one leaves a relationship thinner than it needs to be.
Curious where you are right now?
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